Bad Daddy, Naughty Daddy

I have just told my daughter she is not in our good books. She asked me what that meant. I had to admit I didn't really know. What books am I talking about? The only 'books' she is in are photoalbums and these aren't catagorised into anything like good, bad, ugly etc (actually given my family the whole lot could be filled under ugly). So what have I actually told my daughter? Where the hell does this expression come from? So many questions, so few neuronal interconnections.